What it comes down to, is this:

[kalibex]

When we're young, many of us gals, for various reasons, confuse aggression with competency.

Then we eventually realize that we don't need to put up with assholes in order to have a competent companion.

The beginning of Wisdom...

Comments

[sunfell.livejournal.com]

Amen.

[audioboy.livejournal.com]

I feel like I should have something poignant to say, but alas, I do not. However, I suspect something has happened to prompt your posting this revelation. Are we going to be let into the loop at some point? Your admiring public wants to know!

[kalibex.livejournal.com]

"However, I suspect something has happened to prompt your posting this revelation."

Wrong.

[blinovitch.livejournal.com]

And when you're neither competent nor aggressive?

[evil-lord-zog.livejournal.com]

Zen