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Self-respect (and growth) come from setting goals...and achieving them.
But they have to be your own goals.
And you have to be the one who judges yourself, who makes the ultimate decision as to how you did.
Anything else, you're just spinning your wheels. And allowing yourself to be used by someone else.
But they have to be your own goals.
And you have to be the one who judges yourself, who makes the ultimate decision as to how you did.
Anything else, you're just spinning your wheels. And allowing yourself to be used by someone else.
