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I feel like I take 'longer than other people' to solve problems...from little to big...in my life.
This is based on a perception of being Passive in general. Though, you know...maybe it's just that I like to Conserve Energy...until I am a) more certain that a solution is at hand or b) So Pissed Off that I abruptly tackle said problem.
But even if that's 'true'....why would I be so obsessed with comparisons regarding such a personal and subjective issue? IE, why would have I created yet another souce of potential 'suffering'...to be at risk of self criticism due to measuring myself by a yardstick outside myself?
This is based on a perception of being Passive in general. Though, you know...maybe it's just that I like to Conserve Energy...until I am a) more certain that a solution is at hand or b) So Pissed Off that I abruptly tackle said problem.
But even if that's 'true'....why would I be so obsessed with comparisons regarding such a personal and subjective issue? IE, why would have I created yet another souce of potential 'suffering'...to be at risk of self criticism due to measuring myself by a yardstick outside myself?
